How To Help Your Child Adjust to Their First Year of College

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The first year of college can be stressful for your child as they not only adjust to being in college but adjust to being on their own for the first time. Teenagers are often eager to get to adulthood, but they often don't realize all of the mental work that accompanies being an adult and making adult decisions each day. Suddenly being entirely responsible for your own life, daily schedule, food, and appointments can be overwhelming. As a parent, you want to help your child adjust as quickly as possible without continuing to do things for them.

Here are three ways to help your child adjust to their first year of college.

Accessibility

While teenagers with their cell phones may be frustrating at times, they will rely on their phones a lot once they go to college. It will be their lifeline to everything else going on and their connection to friends, family, instructors, employers, and information. Having poor cell service can be mentally and emotionally overwhelming, and it may inhibit their ability to do all of the things they need to do in the college atmosphere. A Verizon signal booster can be kept in their dorm room or vehicle to ensure they get the best possible cell service. If they have a long drive to and from college through areas with no cell signal due to a lack of cell towers, putting a signal booster in their vehicle can be a lifesaver.

Funding

Worrying about funding while going to college is stressful because your student won't be entirely focused on their studies when they feel they need to focus on working. Short of paying for college, you can provide them with admissions consultants who can help them apply for scholarships, write scholarship essays, and get the funding they need to get their degree. A consultant can provide an application strategy, constructive feedback, essay edits, practice with a mock interview, and help to assemble application materials. A consultant will walk your student through the first step toward college funding and focus on your student's needs for future success. Helping your child relieve the stress of how they are going to pay for college will allow them the freedom to focus on their studies.

Financial Well-Being

While getting grants and scholarships to pay for college is critical, so is teaching your child how to manage money. Learning to manage money properly in college will help them comfortably get through those four years. It will also set them up for future success, as personal money management is an essential lifelong skill. One day, they may want a large home, an excellent vehicle, and the ability to help their future children with college expenses, and most students don't learn personal finances in high school. A financial counselor can teach them the first step toward financial independence. While it may take years of experience to be truly proficient in properly handling money and making a great choice each time, the passion for doing it right can start early.

As a parent, you can only do so much for your adult child. They need to be willing to take the first step and do the things that are in their best interest. However, you can offer them the tools they need to thrive. Helping them to build a solid foundation during their first year in college will help them adjust to the real world much more quickly. College life may feel overwhelming to a first-year student, but it is mild compared to the challenges they will face once they are entirely on their own.